Teach your dog in kind, respectful ways that, while he is an important and much loved member of the family, you – and all the other humans living in the family, including the children – lead the “pack” family. This is especially important if your dog attempts to dominate you, for example, by growling when told to get off the couch. Here’s what you can do:
Remember that the leader leads. You and the other human family members should be first in line when entering or leaving the house. Precede your dog when you go through doors, down hallways and up/down steps. Have him sit and wait for your okay before he leaves the house and gets into or out of the car. Eat before you feed the dog, and if you have more than one dog, place your dogs’ food bowls on the floor in order of their dominance.
Teach your dog that there are no “free lunches.” Have your dog sit or lie down before every treat or meal. Practice obedience exercises daily, because each time your dog does what you ask – and is praised – he is reminded that you are the boss, the one whose praise he wants most, the leader of the pack.
Be aware of your body language. Dogs are keenly sensitive to eye contact, body language and tone of voice. To maintain your leadership position, keep your body higher than your dog’s, and pat your dog on top of his head, not under his chin. The leader should expect to receive eye contact at will. So practice this eye contact exercise daily: Standing before your dog, touch the corner of your eye and say, “Look.” When your dog looks at your eyes, even if only for a brief moment, praise him. Smile and make your eye contact soft and loving. In time, you’ll only have to say “Look” to have his full attention for as long as you want it.
Being the leader means you always win. So don’t play tug-of-war, because when you relinquish the toy, your dog perceives that he’s stronger and therefore must be the leader. Besides, tug-of-war games make dogs bite down harder on objects they should be carrying with a soft grip. Play games you’ll “win,” such as retrieving games, tricks and round-robin recalls. During recalls, reward your dog when he runs to the first person who calls him, then again when he runs to the second person who calls, and again when he runs to the next person.
Sign up for an obedience training class. Obedience training not only reduces behavior problems, but it helps you and your dog communicate better, which strengthening your relationship. Training classes also help your dog develop good manners and household obedience – even when there’s a group of dogs and people around to distract him. Join a class with trainers who use positive, motivational techniques characterized by praise and rewards. Be sure that you and your dog attend classes together; don’t send your dog away to have him trained by someone else.
Consult books that stress positive, motivational training methods, such as:
Second-Hand Dog, by Carol Lea Benjamin
Leader of the Pack, by Nancy Baer and Steve Duno
What All Good Dogs Should Know, by Jack Volhard and Melissa Bartlett
HOW TO CLEAN YOUR DOG’S EARS
If your veterinarian recommends that you clean your dog’s ears – either because they are infected or to prevent infection – follow these simple steps.
Use the ear cleaner your veterinarian recommends, or, if your dog doesn’t have an ear infection, use an unmedicated pet ear cleaner. Medicated cleaners are not advisable for routine use, because they kill the “good” bacteria and allow “bad” bacteria and yeast to overgrow.
Hydrogen peroxide is not a good ear cleaner because it forms oxygen and water, which leaves the ear canal moist, inviting bacterial growth. Don’t use alcohol, either, as it stings if the ear canal is inflamed.
Dogs’ ear canals are L-shaped internally, so the first step in cleaning is to straighten the “L” by gently raising the ear flap as far as it will go.
Fill the ear canal with cleaner, and massage the base of the ear to loosen any debris inside the canal. Let go of the ear and let your dog shake his head. The debris will move from deep in the canal up to the ear flap where you can remove it easily with gauze, cotton balls or tissues.
Don’t insert a cotton swab into your dog’s ear canal, because you might push debris deeper into the canal or damage the eardrum.
Finally, give your dog lots of praise while you clean his ears – and a dog treat, too, if he’s especially good – so he always will be happy to have his ears cleaned.
Dogs and cats benefit from good dental care, just as people do. Good dental habits begin early and include a healthy diet (preferably of dry food), regular tooth brushing, an annual physical examination to detect minor dental problems before they progress to major ones, and professional teeth cleaning when needed.
The benefits of good dental care include more than sweet-smelling breath. Healthy teeth and gums decrease the risk of heart, kidney and liver disease, because bacteria in diseased gums travel through the bloodstream to these organs. In addition, good dental health reduces the need for tooth extractions.
Signs of dental disease include bad breath, gingivitis (a red gum line which may actually shrink back from its usual position), loose teeth and decreased interest in food that requires chewing. Some pets even become lethargic as their mouths become more painful.
One of the best ways to maintain good dental health is to brush your pet’s teeth. Start by softening the bristles of an ordinary soft toothbrush with warm water and applying pet toothpaste to the brush. Pet toothpastes, which are flavored to appeal to pets, contain enzymes that are specific to the chemistry of the dog and cat mouth. Human toothpastes are not recommended because they are ineffective, foam too much and cause stomach upset when pets swallow them.
Gently brush the cheek surfaces of the incisors, the front-most teeth. Over the next few sessions, extend the toothbrush further back in the mouth, so that eventually all teeth are brushed. The animal’s tongue removes much of the plaque from the inside surfaces of the teeth, so your brushing should focus on the cheek surfaces of the teeth, where most of the plaque forms. Tooth brushing is most effective if done daily, but every-other-day brushing also is beneficial.
Professional cleaning, when needed as a supplement to brushing, is done under general anesthesia. The crowns of the teeth are cleaned with an ultrasonic scaler, and the portions of the teeth under the gums are hand-scaled to remove plaque that would otherwise damage the gums. The teeth are polished to produce a smooth surface to which plaque cannot easily attach. Finally, a plaque prevention barrier is applied. Teeth are extracted only if necessary to ensure the health of the rest of the mouth. If needed, x-rays are taken and antibiotics are prescribed. The first meal after the procedure should be light. If teeth were removed, your pet may prefer soft foods for this meal.
Good dental care keeps your pet’s mouth sweet-smelling and free of pain – and helps the rest of your pet’s body remain healthy, too.